Monday, April 25, 2011

What are The Habits and Traits of an Individual with High Self-Esteem?

You will be able to determine if a person has high self-esteem through his habits. These are the 9 habits of people with high self esteem.


Self Esteem Habit 1: Think Positively

Negative thoughts can affect one’s esteem thus you have to think positively if you want to gain higher self-esteem. Thinking positively enhances one’s philosophy or outlook in life. It can also improve one’s personality and attitude.

 Self Esteem Habit 2: Smile and Laugh Often


Having high self-esteem is like having a joyful aura. A person that has high self-esteem laughs and smiles more often. Smiling and laughing significantly change one’s mood into something positive and happy.

Self Esteem Habit 3: Take things easy


A person that has high self-esteem does not worrying too much. He is not taking any problems seriously – not dwelling too much with the problems. He is not letting matters suppressed him instead he is solving it with smile and determination.

Self Esteem Habit 4: Loves Life’s Challenges


A person that has high self- esteem is not afraid to take life’s challenges and not afraid to face failure as well. He is always open for changes and never stops learning and trying new things.



 

Self Esteem Habit 5: Curious and Keen to Improvement

High self-esteem person never stop discovering. He is curious and never stops learning from his experience. He is keen to self-improvement.

 

Self Esteem Habit 6: Engaging himself into Self-Esteem Improvement Program

As a person with high self-esteem is open for improvements, he is making sure that he is engaging himself into programs that will develop his skills better. He is spending more time in the activities that will enhance his communication and personality skills.

 

Self Esteem Habit 7: Love, Share and Give to Others

A person that has high self-esteem does not taking life as competition. He is willing to love others, share thought and ideas to others and gives himself to others. They know how and when to listen and speak. He can be trusted by others and never feel other less worth.

 

Self Esteem Habit 8: Have a Healthy Lifestyle

A person that has high self-esteem making sure that he is taking care of his body. He is eating healthy foods and avoids vices like smoking cigarette and drinking alcohols. He loves himself thus he is making sure that he is getting what his body needs like proper rest and good exercise

 

Self Esteem Habit 9: Expecting the Best Out of Everything

Because a person that has high self-esteem thinks positively, it is actually what he is getting.

Sunday, April 24, 2011

Ya Allah....beri lah kesedaran utk ak belajar dan terus belajar............
Bantulah ak Ya Allah......knpa sush sgt ak nk ingt apa yg ak belajar...................

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

dreams.........dreams......

You have to fight for your dreams.




sweet dreams...



People think that dreaming is easy, but it's not.

You start to dream, and there will be always someone or something riding in like a horde of
 Orcs, wielding their swords and lances, ready to destroy them.

Sometimes, it's the telephone.

Another time, it's the favourite show on the TV about to come on.

Then, there's the knock on the door, the tug on the apron strings, the impatient voice that calls you out of your dream.

Sometimes, it's evil doers who will do their utmost to stop you from dreaming, and instead would like to see you as a slave, tied to some machine, a wheel, just work, no dreams allowed here ...

Sometimes, it's yourself and that's the worst of it all, your doubts and fears and swirling memories from times where dreams were broken, didn't come to pass, time wasted with the dreaming ... work hard, and then your dreams come true ...

See what I mean when I say you have to fight for your dreams?

You have to fight for the time to have them.

You have to fight for the space to have them.

You have to fight for the right to have them.

It takes courage.

It takes perseverance.

It takes discipline.

It takes strength of will, and having your heart in the right place.

It takes the ability to get knocked down and get up again, over and over if necessary.

Most of all, it takes pure, steel like determination to fight for your right to dream and to protect your dreams from all comers, all quarters, from yourself, until the bitter end if necessary.

The people who do that, those are the real dreamers.

Those are the people whose dreams come true.

But not, and never yet, without the fight.

Take heart.

Never give up, never surrender - and you too might one day be proud to call yourself ...
THE DREAMER.